Many of us struggle with our faith in God after He didn’t answer our prayers for our children.
We may have prayed daily for protection, but he or she was in an accident that took their life. We may have prayed for healing from an addiction, or a mental illness like being bi-polar or manic depressive, but our child is no longer here because they were not freed from their struggle and even died by their own doing.
Then there are those children who had a long-term illness, and hundreds of prayers went up by many people for their healing.
Today’s discussion is with one of those parents. Rhyl Venning’s daughter, Kari-Lee, was born with cystic fibrosis, giving her a short lifespan. Over the years, multitudes of people prayed for her healing. Some even “spoke” over her, declaring that God was going to heal Kari. Rhyl was a mom who walked in faith for that healing, whether it was miraculous, or through a medical breakthrough.
This is similar to Laura’s situation with her daughter, Becca, which made for a very interesting conversation in how they both overcame the hurt and disappointment when God did not step in with the healing miracle they both thought was coming for their daughters.
Rhyl Venning lives on the Sunshine Coast 
of Queensland, Australia, and had the privilege of being Kari-Lee’s mother. She is married to Peter and has one remaining daughter, Tiana. Rhyl currently works as a nanny, but before Kari-Lee went to Heaven, she worked as an Occupational Therapist, spending the last twenty years working with children who had moderate to severe disabilities.
She facilitates a support group for bereaved mums, is the Volunteer Care Coordinator for the local Make-A-Wish group, and is a puppy carer for Seeing Eye Dogs. Rhyl is also writing a memoir about Kari-Lee’s life and how she has managed to survive without her daughter. In her free time, she loves to walk on the beach, scrapbook, swim, grow veggies, read, and catch up with friends and family for a cuppa and chat.
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This podcast episode was sponsored by Dave and Kathi Crean in honor of their son, Jack.
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Email Rhyl at: pven2000@yahoo.com
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Birthdays:
Madeline Youngdahl was born on July 16 and is forever 14.
Jack Crean was born on July 16 and is forever 18.
Duy Leo Weigert was born on July 16 and is forever 8 months.
Jimmy LaPlante was born on July 19 and is forever 39.
James Nesrsta was born on July 19 and is forever 8.
Charlotte Gray Perry was born on July 20 and is forever 26 days.
Logan Bauer was born on July 20 and is forever 20.
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Remember to Hold On Pain Eases; there is HOPE!
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Grieving Parents Sharing Hope (GPS Hope) is here to walk with parents through the darkness of child-loss, guiding them to a place of hope, light and purpose.
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