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October 3, 2025 by Laura Diehl Leave a Comment

A Father’s Story of Losing a Child and Finding God

Father’s Story of Losing a Child and Finding God — guided by GPS Hope toward healing, as a man stands in a green field looking to a bright sky.A Loss That Changed Everything

Father’s Story of Losing a Child — finding God in the darkness, as a grieving silhouette stands in a foggy forest with light breaking through, guided by GPS Hope.When our child dies, life is forever divided into a “before” and an “after.” That kind of loss is something no parent ever expects or prepares for. In a recent conversation with Mick Weinhold, he shared the story of how the heartbreaking loss of his firstborn son, Luke, became the turning point that changed not just his life, but his eternity — a deeply personal Father’s Story of Losing a Child.

Mick described Luke’s birth and death as a moment that shattered his world. His wife had carried Luke to 39 weeks, only to discover that his heart had stopped beating just days before delivery. That devastating news left them with an empty crib, broken hearts, and a reality they never imagined they would face — the kind of pain only understood through a Father’s Story of Losing a Child.

Crying Out to God in the Darkness

But what makes Mick’s story so powerful is what happened after. He and his wife had grown up knowing about God, but had wanted nothing to do with Him. Rules and expectations without relationship had only pushed them further away. Yet in the raw pain of losing their first child, they found themselves crying out to God, not because they had it all figured out, but because they had nowhere else to turn. As Mick put it, “We felt like we had a Luke-shaped hole in our hearts. But what God showed us was that it was really a God-shaped hole.”

Out of that dark place, God met them with His love, His presence, and His peace. What started as desperate cries for help grew into a real relationship with Jesus. It didn’t erase the grief. It didn’t take away the longing for Luke. But it transformed their hearts and gave them a foundation that carried them through. Over time, they experienced not only healing but also blessings they could never have imagined, including the birth of three living children, two of them twins born seven years after Luke, a redemption that carried deep meaning.

Wrestling with Grief and Finding Purpose

Father’s Story of Losing a Child — like a lighthouse in the darkness, God guides us through grief, shining hope from GPS Hope.Mick was honest about the struggle. There was anger, confusion, and the hard questions we all wrestle with after losing a child: “If God is good, why didn’t He stop this?” Yet even in his anger, God met him. Mick shared how he once cried out bitterly about the unfairness of friends having a baby being born on Luke’s due date, and in that moment, he heard God speak: “You were supposed to pray for them.” It was a reminder that even in grief, God is present, guiding, and working in ways beyond our understanding.

As we talked, Mick reflected on a pattern he has seen again and again: our plans interrupted by God, a painful in-between, and then blessings beyond what we could have imagined. These are not always the blessings the world points to, such as money, fame or success, but the kind of blessings that change lives and redeem what was broken.

Hope for the In-Between

Father’s Story of Losing a Child — worshipful silhouette facing a sunset, finding completeness in God despite deep grief, guided by GPS Hope.For grieving parents, these blessings don’t make the loss go away. The hole our child leaves is real. But God can meet us in that place. He doesn’t replace our child, but He can bring us wholeness within the shatteredness. We can be complete in Him, even while still deeply missing our child.

Mick’s testimony reminds us that we always have a choice. We can push God away and remain in the suffocating darkness, or we can choose to cry out to Him. When we do, He meets us with hope, light, and peace, even in the middle of our pain.

If you are struggling today, hear this: the “in between” is not the end. If you can’t see anything good yet, that just means God is not finished. He still has blessings for you, more than you can imagine, and He wants to walk with you through the darkness until you see the light again — just as Mick did in his Father’s Story of Losing a Child.

Have you seen God at work in a way you did not expect, after the death of your child? Please share below, as an encouragement to others.


A horizontal row of colorful butterflies in different sizes and positions, appearing as if in flight. The vibrant wings symbolize hope, healing, and remembrance after child loss. GPS Hope - Grieving Parents Sharing HOPE.

NOTE: This was partially taken from the Grieving Parents Sharing Hope podcast episode 316. Click here to listen to the full discussion, or look for the Grieving Parents Sharing Hope podcast on your favorite listening app.

📖 Find out more about Laura’s newly released book The Bible’s Grieving Parents: Finding Comfort, Hope and Faith from Their Stories.

If you’ve been struggling with questions like “Where is God in this pain?” or “How do I keep living with a broken heart?” I wrote this book for you. My prayer is that these biblical stories will remind you that you are not alone, and that God’s goodness and mercy are still at work in your life, just as He was in the lives of those we read about in the Bible. – Laura

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If you would like gentle support as you navigate life after child loss, I’ve created a free guide to walk with you. Sign below and get your copy.

Four award-winning grief support books by Laura Diehl for bereaved parents. Top-left: When Tragedy Strikes, black cover, subtitle “Rebuilding Your Life with Hope and Healing After the Death of Your Child,” with an Illumination Book Awards sticker. Top-right: Reflections of HOPE, ocean and sun cover, subtitle “Daily Readings for Bereaved Parents,” next to a wooden Illumination Book Award plaque (2024). Bottom-left: Hope for the Future, white cover with three lit candles, subtitle “An Advent Journey for Bereaved Parents,” with three gold Illumination Book Awards stickers. Bottom-right: My Grief Journey coloring book and journal, colorful intricate designs, with a Christian Book Award Winner sticker. GPS Hope – Grieving Parents Sharing HOPE.

AWARD WINNING AUTHOR, LAURA DIEHL, has written several impactful books that provide comfort and guidance to those navigating the painful journey of child loss, after the death of her own daughter in 2011. Her most acclaimed work, When Tragedy Strikes: Rebuilding Your Life with Hope and Healing After the Death of Your Child, has received multiple accolades, including the 2017 Gold Medal Centauri Christian Book Award for Non-Fiction and a Silver Medal in the 2018 Illumination Awards. Several of her other books have won awards as well.

Podcast cover for “Grieving Parents Sharing Hope” with Laura Diehl, offering faith-based encouragement for grieving parents after child loss. Background shows a dramatic sunset over the ocean with a lighthouse on the right, symbolizing hope in darkness. Laura Diehl’s headshot is in the bottom left corner. A gold seal in the center reads “Winner, AmericanWritingAwards.com, Podcast of the Year 2025,” with a smaller version of the seal in the bottom right corner. GPS Hope – Grieving Parents Sharing HOPE.In addition to her writing, Laura is an ordained minister and has an extensive background in international children’s ministry. She is a sought-after speaker and singer at grief conferences and churches, known for her compassionate approach and deep understanding of the grieving process, especially the unique loss of a child. Through her weekly award-winning podcast, her writings, and other resources provided by GPS Hope, Laura and her husband, Dave, continue to provide hope and healing to thousands of parents worldwide, helping them find light in the midst of profound loss and darkness.

For more information about Laura’s award-winning books go to gpshope.org/books.
To find out more about Laura Diehl and the ministry of Grieving Parents Sharing Hope (GPS Hope) visit gpshope.org.

The link to Hope for the Future is an affiliate link, allowing part of the purchase price to go to GPS Hope. 

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