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May 7, 2017 by Laura Diehl 8 Comments

A Bereaved Mother’s Day

 

My child,
Flesh of my flesh,
Soul of my soul,
Part of my very being;
I had an instant deep and fierce love when I first saw you.
My heart was yours, and I knew I would give my very life to protect you.

And yet, here I sit, with the suffocating pain and darkness of knowing I was unable to protect you from death.

So now I find that just as deep and intense as my love for you, is the deep and intense pain of my grief in living without you. And yet I know that somehow, I must.

How? How God? How do I go on with a piece 7. must learn to live without youof my very being gone from this earth?

And as I ask and seek for this help, God in His tender love, compassion and faithfulness reminds me that I don’t have to live without you.

You are forever in my heart and my thoughts, and forever a part of my very being; that our separation is only temporary. You have just moved on to our eternal home before me and have unpacked and settled in, waiting for me and the rest of us to join you.

This isn’t a final good-by. It is an “I’ll see you later.” When I have the thoughts that I would give anything  to see you again, to hug you or hear you laugh, I realize that I will! Maybe not as soon as I want to, but it will happen!

And so I will wait. I will wait with hope, expectancy and even excitement to see you again. Every day I am here on this earth means I am one day closer to that desperate need I have as a mother, to love on you.

7. I willAnd while I wait, I will choose to live my life in a way that is full; full of love, full of peace and contentment, full of laughter. And yet I know it will also still be full of pain and longing. For I have now learned that all of these things can live inside of me together.

So on this day of honoring bereaved mothers, let me say I am honored. I am honored and blessed to be your mom, and I imagine and dream of our reunion someday, filled with love and joy that goes beyond words to describe it.

But until then, I will have good days and bad days. I will have days filled with happiness, and days filled with pain. And all of those days I will continue to miss you with every fiber of my being.

 

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Expressions of Hope is written by author, speaker and singer Laura Diehl. She and her husband, Dave, are the founders of Grieving Parents Sharing Hope (GPS Hope). Dave and Laura travel full time in their Hope Mobile (a 38-foot motor home) to be more easily available for speaking and ministry requests, including being invited to hold one-day GPS Hope & Healing conferences.

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April 17, 2017 by Laura Diehl 4 Comments

Four Ways to Deal With Those Unavoidable Bittersweet Events

Many people don’t realize, as someone who has had a child leave this earth, how many occasions that should be filled with joy, are now a painful stab to our hearts.

Our thoughts are constantly going to who is absent. It is like a slap in the face that our child should be a part of this celebration, sometimes smack dab in the middle of it, which makes the event even more difficult. That is what I mean by “bittersweet”.

6. painful remindersFor instance, we have two daughters. The oldest, Becca, was married in 2001, and her sister was her maid of honor. Five and a half years ago, Becca died. This month, the other daughter is getting married. There have been many tears shed (from both of us) that her sister has not been with us to help plan and be part of the wedding shower, the wedding preparations, and will not be there to be her matron of honor.

What is supposed to be one of the happiest days of a woman’s life, is now also one of the most painful. Bittersweet.

Every time a new grandchild is born (and we just had number five, our first grandson, born February 1st, and exactly one month later on March 1st, another granddaughter was born). While we were ecstatic at these new blessings, there is a deeply painful reminder their Aunt Becca will never have the joy of holding them, watching them grow, being part of their lives, and these children will never know their Aunt Becca or hear her contagious laugh. Bittersweet.

A graduation is the same way, especially if your child should have been one of those getting a diploma and having a party. You are happy for those who have reached that milestone of accomplishment, but there is the glaring reminder of our child who is not there and should be. Bittersweet.

I don’t have to go on. We all know what it is like now.

Sometimes we can avoid the event altogether and just not go. But what if we can’t? Obviously, I am not going to stay home when my daughter is in her beautiful gown and is given to a man who loves her deeply and she becomes his wife.

Painful reminders of our child not being here because of celebration events, is literally a never-ending battle we will be facing until our own departure from this earth.

So the question is, how do we deal with it?

Here are four suggestions that I hope will help.

  1. Before the event, find someone you 6. validate your griefcan talk to about the turmoil you are feeling. Someone who will allow you to grieve without judgment, and even grieve with you. Because let’s face it, that is what we are doing. We are grieving the loss of our child… again… (and again, and again, and again…). That is NORMAL!!! It will help to find someone who will validate that grief and allow you to get it out.
  1. During the event, if painful thoughts threaten to leak out of your eyes (and you don’t want them to), distract yourself. Go in with a plan of what you will start thinking about instead.
    • Is it a wedding? Study every detail of the bride’s dress, her veil, her hair, etc.
    • Is it a shower? Start making guesses at how much each gift cost, or guess what is in the wrapped packages and see if you are right.
    • Is it a graduation? Start counting. Count how many in the audience are wearing the school colors.

3. Excuse yourself, and have a good cry! Sometimes that is just the best thing to do. Lean into your grief. Lynn Breeden, founder of Mourning to Dancing had this to say recently, at the Hope & Healing Virtual Summit.

I remember going to a concert once, when I was away from home, and I was by myself, with just other friends and people that (acquaintances, not close friends), and we went to a concert, just to kind of pass the time. And…and I thought it was going to be safe, you know. We…we assume that. And this was only three or four years ago, so it was twenty-some years into this process.

 And what I didn’t know was, this man who was doing the concert had lost a child. And so, as he’s doing this concert, I… realized that he’s leading in, and a lot of his music that he wrote was about this loss of a child. And so, a long story short, I…hear him, 6. have a good cryand I’m trying really hard to talk to myself, “You can do this. This is okay. You don’t have to, you know, make a spectacle …you don’t have to cry, you just kind of…” and then he went to a song that was incredibly heartfelt for me, and then you have to make the decision, “Am I going to stay here and blubber and cry in this concert, or am I going to walk out?” And I walked out, and I had a good cry.

 4. Just let people around you know, so they can share that sacred moment with you, of remembering your child and how much you love and miss him or her. Once again, I want to share what someone said at the GPS Hope & Healing Virtual Summit. This comes from Kathi Wilson.

So, there is … an element of embracing where your heart is, and sometimes I refer to it as surfing the waves of grief. Because there’s this ebb and flow, and sometimes, years after a loss, we could be in the midst of something crazily fun. And something will trigger a memory, and there will be a wave of grief wash over you. And you can … tell people that are around you, ”Wow.  I just remembered… this picture, and this is what I’m feeling at this moment.”

And then you’re being real. You’re being true. And then the people that you’re relating with, have a bond with you, over that moment in time, which you could have shut down, but instead, you said, “This is part of my life. This is part of my story. And we’re together now. Let me share it with you.”

Not putting prayer in the list doesn’t mean I don’t think it is6. does not erase the pain important. To me, that is a given. But having God in our lives does not take a giant eraser and remove that pain of no longer having our child here with us to share in all of these things they were supposed to be a part of with us.

We need tools to help us, because like I said, unfortunately, we will be dealing with these kinds of bittersweet situations for the rest of our lives.

May God give you the comfort, peace, wisdom, hope and light that you need, each and every day, and each and every event you find yourself facing.

Let’s help each other out. Do you have any other ideas, or is there something you have done that helped you get through one of those bittersweet events? Please share it below.

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In my book, Come Grieve Through Our Eyes, I talk about how even the word “family” is bittersweet, and share what other bereaved parents have to say about it. To have that chapter sent to you, along with the two pages about family from My Grief Journey: A Coloring Book and Journal, just fill in the information below and submit.

Expressions of Hope is written by author and speaker Laura Diehl to bring hope, light and life to bereaved parents. If you would like more information about Laura as a speaker for your next event, click here.

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April 5, 2017 by Laura Diehl Leave a Comment

I Am So Angry About My Child’s Death!

“I will say I am still very angry at God. I’ve not been able to pray any longer.  My heart aches for God at the same time my anger prevails.” This was part of a recent email I received, from someone who lost her son over four years ago.

One of the things I hear about the most from pareavors (parents bereaved of their child) is how much they struggle with anger, which is why I am writing about this topic again.

Lynn Breeden and I talked about this at the recent virtual summit I hosted, in her session When Your Faith Has Been Shattered. Lynn’s life was forever changed in October of 1987, when her son Joel Brian died of cancer at the very young age of only five years old. After coming to terms with this loss, her greatest desire is to help other moms through their own loss, so they do not have to grieve alone.*

Here is some of our discussion, in relation to being angry with God about the death of our child.

Laura: One of the things I hear the most is how angry they are at God for allowing their child to die. Because, we all know, God could have stopped it. We all know that. So many of these parents are so angry at God, because He didn’t. Is it okay to be angry at God?

Lynn: Absolutely. Absolutely. I think that’s 5. God didn't do thisa healthy, normal reaction to something that happens to us that is so earth-shattering, and life-altering. And I talk to a lot of moms that are grieving, and they don’t have the same experience where my foundation of God gave me that knowledge that God didn’t do this to me. God didn’t take my child.

And so, their natural reaction is to be angry at God. And I think God wants us to. God wants us to vent and to share, to pour out our hearts; to wail, to cry, to help us understand why. And I think the hardest part of this, is we long to know the answers why. And we don’t get to know those answers. And in our humanness, we have to understand it. Somehow, we’ve got to make sense of it. And I don’t know that there is a “make sense of this.” I don’t think that we get to always know the answers. Most of the time, ever, this side of heaven. And so, obviously, it is easier to be angry at God, because He seems to be the one that is in charge of all of this.

Laura: And He can take it.

Lynn: Exactly. Absolutely. And I think that’s probably why I say that’s the best person to 5. talk to Himbe angry at, because He understands us. You know, he can take that. His shoulders are pretty broad. And He can handle that. And when we’re crying out to Him, we’re talking to Him. And that’s what He wants, is that communication, whether it’s good, bad or ugly, it doesn’t matter. He just wants us to talk to Him. So, I kind of love it when people do that, honestly.

Laura: Yeah. It’s like when we’re angry with our spouse or something, we kind of have to have it out with them. We have to work it out. And it’s the same thing with God. It’s a relationship. And so, if we’re angry at God, we need to have it out with Him, and work it out.

So, Lynn, when someone comes to you and their faith has been shattered by the death of their child, is there anything that you tell them they can do? Some steps, or some things that they can do towards getting that faith back? What can they do proactively?

Lynn: You know, sometimes we get in such a rut of the anxiety of life, and we’re so consumed in our pain and our grief; and it is consuming, especially in those first couple of years, it’s incredibly consuming.  And it’s hard to step outside of yourself. And, you know, there’s a lot of mental in all of this. And to quiet ourselves in the presence of God, and to try to empty our minds…the pain that we’re feeling…I think there’s a lot of ways we can do this.

I would want you to do it in the way that speaks best to you. Maybe it’s music. Maybe it’s art. It’s not necessarily just sitting down and praying. But it’s immersing yourself in something that is constructive, not destructive. And I think that we tend to gravitate to bathing our pain in pain. And sometimes we have to step outside of that, and figure out how to steep ourselves in something that’s good.

I also want to remind you of that Scripture, “I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.” That’s a verse that I’ve hung onto over the years. Because it tells me, “I can do anything with God’s strength.” And that’s a big deal in this 5. immerse in positivitywhole process, knowing that we have a God that is stronger than anything, even when we feel pretty weak in this deal. But to immerse yourself in things that are good. When we immerse ourselves in positivity instead of negativity, it changes how we look at things. And I think that’s a powerful place to start, in changing some of our rhythms of life. ‘Cause everything has changed.

Obviously, there is so much more in this discussion than what I can put in a short blog.

Lynn went on to talk about

  • Meditating – getting control of our thoughts
  • The process we go through to process the death of our child
  • How we are all on our personal grief journey so it will look different for each of us
  • Coping skills when blindsided with a grief attack
  • That after being on this journey for 30 years, there is HOPE, and that God will keep His promise to you to take you from a place of mourning to a place of joy

We also talked about being blindsided when God did not answer our prayers in healing or protecting our children and had a discussion on unforgiveness within our anger.

The bottom line is that it is normal and okay to be angry with God for allowing the death of your child. But it is something you need to go through the process to work out with Him.

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Expressions of Hope is written by author and speaker Laura Diehl to bring hope, light and life to bereaved parents. If you would like more information about Laura as an author or speaker (or to contact her) click here.

*Lynn Breeden founded Mourning to Dancing, which is a non-denominational ministry, with the sole mission to offer comfort, hope, and encouragement to mothers who have suffered the loss of a child. She also currently serves as a Pastor for Lambs Chapel United Methodist Church in LaPorte Indiana.

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March 12, 2017 by Laura Diehl 14 Comments

How to Get Past the Anger after the Death of Your Child

When death takes our child from us, we can be surprised and even scared at how much anger there is inside of us. It can be even more shocking to realize who the cause of our anger is, as it is often not just someone who was directly involved in our child’s death (like a drunk driver or an actual murderer). We can also be angry at

  • Our family and friends for telling us things like we need to “just get over it”
  • Someone indirectly related to the death (like a spouse or babysitter for not keeping a closer eye on our child)
  • Ourselves (if only I had…)
  • God (why didn’t you stop it?)
  • Our child for leaving us

Did I just say that? Yes, if you are angry at your child, let me say as awful as that sounds, you can breathe a sigh of relief because it is NORMAL! Especially if the death was by his or her own doing, either directly or indirectly.

And if you are angry at God right now, that’s also typical. We all know God could have stopped it. I have so many testimonies of times in Becca’s life when He did step in and miraculously spared her life. So why didn’t he do it again on October 12, 2011?

There is no answer that will satisfy that 4. dont camp out at angerquestion. Even if God reveals the answer this side of heaven, it won’t be a good enough reason. I would find myself acting like a teenager, telling my Dad it isn’t fair, and that His answer isn’t a good enough one to cause this kind of anguish and pain in my life.

So how do we get past that kind of anger and blame? Is it even possible?

Yes, it is, but it is a choice we must make. This choice is not based on our feelings. It is not based on if that person deserves it. It is based on the fact that I don’t want to stay in this suffocating darkness any longer, and I will do whatever it takes to step toward hope and light for my life.

Dennis Apple, who was a pastor when his son died, shares in his book Life After the Death of My Son how he was disappointed and angry with God. Dennis says he was “hanging out near the back door of my faith,” and for a long time he refused to say or sing the phrase, “God is good all the time.”

How did he get past that? Dennis states as he came to a crossroads, he asked himself a couple of questions: Do I believe there’s a sovereign God who knows and sees all, including my suffering over the loss of our son? Am I going to trust in this sovereign God whom I don’t always understand? After wrestling with these questions for a long time, he was able to say through painful tears, “Yes, I believe in Him, and yes I will trust Him”.

4. suffocating darknessHis wife Beulah also made a conscious decision after several years of deep grief. Did she want to remain in this same dark place she had been in for almost five years, or did she want to come out of it and make the best of her life and her family that was still here? She chose to “lay aside the garment of grief and mourning, sweep up the ashes that surrounded her, and go on.” It was a turning point for both her, and their marriage.

Angela Alexander, Executive Producer of the documentary movie Miracles in Action, based on her book with the same title, believes one of the keys to getting past the anger is to share with others. “We overcome by the Blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony,” Revelation 12:11.

“What testimony?” you ask? The one God is still writing in your life. Angela has had to overcome the death of two brothers, the loss of a baby during pregnancy, a husband who miraculously survived a brain aneurysm (only to have to learn how to do everything again from eating, talking and walking), a brother murdering their sister who was Angela’s life-long very best friend, and then the death of two of her sons in a bizarre car accident (while she was on military duty in Japan). Wow! How can she possibly write a book titled Miracles in Action after all of that?

Because Angela believes a testimony comes from being tested, and that we can come out the other side filled with God’s love, forgiveness and mercy, which are truly miracles in action.

However, in the time of deep dark testing4.anger and unforgiveness for the testimony, we have to grasp the truth that our anger  and unforgiveness can block God’s blessings from us. Too often we think by remaining angry at someone, we are holding them hostage. But forgiveness is actually a gift you give to yourself. You will remain a prisoner of your anger until the pain of remaining the same is greater than the pain of change. And that means making the choice to forgive, and releasing yourself from your crippling emotional prison.

And don’t believe the saying, “Forgive and forget.”

Angela readily admits, “Some pain you won’t forget, but through forgiveness, understanding, and love, you can remember the events from a different perspective.”

The founder of Grief, Grace and Gratitude and author of Grief: A Mama’s Unwanted Journey, Shelley Ramsey talks about how angry she got at how other people treated her after the death of her son that she basically isolated herself for five years. How does Shelley recommend getting past that place of anger? If you are angry, let God have it! Yell at Him. “Go outside and scream at the top of your lungs. Say whatever you need to say. Cry as long and as hard as you want. Throw something if you need to.” He can take it! And then, ask Him to bring people into your life who will hold you, cry with you, and remember your child with you.

4. God can see the big pictureI address the issue of anger in several of my books as well. In My Grief Journey: A Coloring Book and Journal for Grieving Parents, here is what I wrote about the word anger:

There are a few who don’t get angry at God, but most parents who have lost a child through death definitely feel this emotion toward Him. And it’s okay. He can take it. Yell at Him; have it out with Him!

Yes, He could have moved His hand and stopped the death of your child and mine. But He didn’t do it, for reasons we cannot see or understand.

Most often, our anger at God comes when we think of our loss more than our child’s gain; our pain keeps us from trusting that God can see the big picture, and knows something we don’t know.

There are others we can be angry with as well, for all kinds of reasons.

It is okay to be angry, and to work through it. But for your own sake, please don’t camp out in this place.

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Dennis, Shelly and Angela are speakers at the Hope & Healing Virtual Summit, that you can watch on video in your own home via the internet, along with sixteen more sessions with other bereaved parents who are speakers, authors, grief experts and founders of grief organizations and ministries.

Click here for more information on the Hope & Healing Virtual Summit.

 

Expressions of Hope is written by author and speaker Laura Diehl to bring hope, light and life to bereaved parents. If you would like more information about Laura as an author or speaker click here.

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February 15, 2017 by Laura Diehl Leave a Comment

Who Am I Now Without My Child?

When our child dies, it can make us feel like our very identity has been lost.

You see, a very important benefit of Christianity is the tremendous sense of identity we have that comes from knowing Jesus Christ in a very personal way. As we grow in knowing Him, we grow in that identity. We grow in knowing how much God loves us, and how each one of us is created uniquely, for a special purpose.

All of that comes crashing down around us. It seems we only thought we knew who God was, and that if He really did create us for a special purpose, He was very cruel in that purpose for us.

Families also give us a sense of identity 1. our shattered identityand purpose. Once again, when our child leaves this earth before we do, it shatters our sense of identity as a parent and our purpose in that role (even if we have other children).

Believe it or not, the worst tragedy of my life brought one of my greatest revelations. For quite a while after Becca died, I could only see myself as a mom who had lost her child.  The intense grief was suffocating.  My huge loss did become what I allowed to define me as a person.

The first year was such a fog. The second year the fog started to lift, which actually caused even more intense pain, as the reality that my daughter was no longer here on earth started to hit hard.  The third year became a painful resignation of trying to figure out who I am with that piece of my life stripped from me.

4. my daughter is aliveSince everything was such a blur for so long, I can’t tell you when or how it happened, but by the grace of God, I finally had a breakthrough of understanding that my identity was not tied to my circumstance of being a grieving mother.

And also by the grace of God, that started to release an even deeper revelation; that my identity is not based on anything but who Christ is in me – that hope of glory.

You see, most of us have somewhat of a grasp that we are in Christ.  But it is extremely rare to hear anyone talk about how we also need to live from the revelation that God, in all of His glory, is living inside of us.  Yes, we know that in our heads, but do we really get what that means?

When Jesus died, His blood was sprinkled on the mercy seat in heaven once and for all, on our behalf.  God’s very presence no longer remained behind a curtain, which is why the veil was torn in two from top to bottom!

We are no longer separated from God by a curtain. Those who accept the work of the blood of Jesus are seen as righteous (right with God) and the very being of God dwells, or “tabernacles” , inside of us.  WE are now the temple where God’s Spirit rests.

That means we don’t have to try to reach “out there” somewhere, trying to get ahold of God.  When we believe in the price Jesus paid for us on the cross, His Spirit comes to live, or dwell, inside of us.

2. stop striving Ps 46-10We only have to quiet ourselves and listen to Him from within our own spirit.   I can live from a place of rest, knowing He is inside of me and will comfort me deeply, and guide me with His wisdom and loving kindness.

God has so much to say to us – to you, and to me.  And much of it has to do with who He is inside of us, and how to live from that place of rest and identity in Him.  It isn’t about what I do or don’t do. It isn’t about what has happened to me. It is all about who I am, with God Himself residing inside of me.

In order to go forward in the fullness of God’s identity in us, we have to let go of our own identity.  The one that has been shattered, by the death of our child. How do we do that?

One way, is to do something God told us to do.   “Be still and know that I am God” (Ps. 46:10).  Another version of the Bible says, “Stop your striving and recognize that I am God” (NET).  I think some of us hesitate to do that because we are afraid God wants to tell us everything we are doing wrong.  Or we are so angry at Him, that the last thing we want to do is sit still in His presence and let Him love on us. I mean if He really truly loved us, He would not have let our child die, right?

But when we choose to come to God, not based on what we feel towards Him, but on what we so desperately need from Him (comfort, peace, wholeness, etc.) it opens the door to the breakthrough we are crying out for; who am I now with my child taken from this earth?

I truly believe more than anything, 3. aware of His SpiritGod just wants to love on us.  But we won’t know that for ourselves, until we come to Him in the stillness within our hearts to hear Him speak to us and feel the warmth of that love in the depths of our soul.  The more aware we become of His Spirit living fully in us, bringing healing to our deeply wounded hearts, the less aware we become of our own shattered identity.

Let me ask you something.  When you “go to the feet of Jesus” where do you see yourself?  At the cross?  That is a place of forgiveness, which has already been given to us.

Jesus isn’t on the cross.  He is sitting on a throne at the right hand of the Father (Heb. 12:2).  We are told that is where we are seated as well – in heavenly places in Christ Jesus (Eph. 2:6).  And, that is where my daughter is, and your child as well. (And if you struggle with not knowing if that is true for your daughter or son, )

When I started seeing myself at the feet of Jesus at the throne, which is where He is now, it put me in a totally different place of identity!  His throne is a place of majesty, power, and authority.  His throne is a place of glory, and my daughter is right there, seeing it all with her own eyes! That makes me want to live from that place of identity even more.

I don’t want my identity to come from where Becca was, but where she is now. I don’t want my identity to be “my daughter died”, but “my daughter is alive”!

I understand that it takes time to get to that place. I know full well that we are each traveling our own journey of grief after the death of our child. 5. light on other sideI know it takes way longer than we want it to, and the darkness closes in on us, whether we want it to or not.

But I also know there is light on the other side of the darkness. I am here to poke a hole in that darkness so that a glimmer of hope can get through; so that eventually you, too, can have one of the deepest, most fulfilling revelations possible on this earth; so that your identity is not based on earthly circumstances, but on who Christ is IN YOU.

Much of this article was taken from Laura’s book, Triple Crown Transformation. Would you like to hear Laura, herself, read it as an audio book? Let us send you an MP3 download, available for free until April 1, 2017. (After April 1st, it will be available for purchase in our web store.)

 

Expressions of Hope is written by author and speaker Laura Diehl to bring hope, light and life to bereaved parents. If you would like more information about Laura as an author or speaker click here.

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